2 Timothy 3:16
All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness.

Counseling Sessions

The counseling I provide is Christ-focused and biblically-based. I take a balanced and direct approach to counseling, providing support and guidance that integrates both biblical direction together with useful tools and solutions. As a certified Holistic Counselor, I understand that it is important to treat the whole person; body, soul (mind, will, emotions), and spirit. I offer counseling that sees your challenges through the lens of biblical truth. In this way, I am able to offer godly counsel based on the scriptures. I provide the guidance and support you seek in a world where godly counsel is often hard to find.

Counseling sessions are conducted over the phone and recorded for your convenience. A copy of the recording is texted or emailed to you after each session. Sessions are usually about 90-minutes long but can run longer if needed. During the initial session, I listen and gather information about your specific situation and challenges. After our fist session, I will often suggest ongoing weekly or bi-monthly sessions.

At the end of each session, take-aways are often assigned which may include writing assignments, the reading of books, watching of videos, or other relevant exercises. All books, audios, or other counseling materials that may be recommended are provided at no cost as part of this ministry.

Counseling That Takes a Closer Look At

  • Healing deep-level wounds
  • Reframing negative self-talk
  • Overcoming distorted thinking patterns
  • Learning to truly forgive and move forward
  • Breaking abuse cycles
  • Mending a detached heart
  • Learning how to receive God's love
  • Improving dysfunctional communication
  • Developing healthy assertiveness
  • Learning how to set healthy boundaries
  • Overcoming anxiety and depression
  • Developing spiritual discernment
  • Understanding your life's purpose
  • Overcoming areas of struggle with habitual sin
  • And more...
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Stephanie Stanton, H.H.C., Christian Counselor
SUPPORT FOR THOSE STRUGGLING WITH:
​Abuse • Addiction • Rejection • Anger and Rage Issues • Anxiety and Panic Attacks • Depression • Suicidal Thoughts • Same-Sex Attraction or Gender Confusion • Marital Problems or Divorce • Sexual Immorality • Loss of Life Purpose • New Age and Occult Backgrounds • "Alien" Abduction or Other Paranormal Experiences • Unhealthy Eating Habits

Counseling That Is Aligned with the Following Beliefs

  • There is one true God (the God of the Bible).
  • There is one living and true God, eternally existing as the Godhead; the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit, each distinct and equal in power and glory: omniscient, omnipotent, and omnipresent (1 John 5:7-8 KJV).
  • Jesus Christ is the eternal Son of God, fully God and fully human, conceived of the Holy Spirit and born of the virgin Mary.
  • Jesus lived a sinless life, provided for the atonement of our sins by His death on the Cross, was bodily resurrected by the power of the Holy Spirit, ascended back to the right hand of God the Father, and ever lives to make intercession for us.
  • The Holy Spirit is the Spirit of God, fully divine.
  • ​Salvation is a free gift of God and that we are saved by grace through faith alone in Christ alone; that the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus (Romans 6:23).
  • The Bible is the inspired written Word of God.

Understanding Our Deepest Needs

Foundationally, each of us have four core needs (i.e., acceptance, identity, security, and purpose) that only can be met by God. Understanding this is essential. If, however, we fail to let God meet these deepest needs in us we will subconsciously project them onto others in an attempt to have them satisfy these needs for us which they are incapable of doing. This often leads to unrealistic expectations of others, a life of resentment, chronic disappointment, and our ability to give may become dependent on what we get from others.

In order to find peace and fulfillment, we need to start by making God the center of our lives and relationships. Trying to get others to satisfy these core needs (or trying to fill the void of these unmet needs with something else) is often the root cause of addictions, failed relationships, depression, abuse, chronic anger, codependency, narcissism, eating disorders, and so on.

ACCEPTANCE

“I am loved and accepted for who I am” (Romans 8:35-39). When we seek to have our need for acceptance met by another person we will seek validation from others and will be let down. This can lead to us feeling rejected and bitter. God is the only one who knows everything about us and will always love and accept His children.

IDENTITY

"I am special, unique, and significant” (Psalm 139). When we know our identity in God we can truly love ourselves and others the way God loves us. God is the only one who knows why each of us were created. Those who have their need for identity fulfilled by God know they are special, unique, and a child of God.

SECURITY

“I am safe and secure from harm” (Psalm 91). When we have God's security in us it is easy to be at peace no matter what is happening around us. God is the only one who can make us feel truly safe and secure.

PURPOSE

“I have a significant purpose and there is a reason for my life” (Jeremiah 29:11-14). When we feel a lack of purpose in our lives it can lead to such things as anger, addictions, and depression. God has a purpose and reason for each of our lives. Our true purpose will align with God's will and have something to do with serving others in truth and love.

Source of Deepest Needs: Paraphrased from Marriage on The Rock Couple’s Workbook, by Jimmy Evans